I am Ren (or Sarah, pick your poison). I have my own problems that I'm not going to glorify or make seem cool just because that's the popular thing to do.
  • bookdrunkinlove:

    People realize the baby in board stickers aren’t to make drivers safer in our vicinity right? It’s so if we ever get in an accident the paramedics know to check for a car seat before they attend to me.

    (Source: braindead, via yourdarkguardian)

  • Hey tumblr!


    I’m not a conservative by any means, but I think that tumblr needs to go back to some traditional values. I’m not talking about going to back to women not societally allowed to wear pants, I’m talking about basic things like:

    • Be nice to people.
    • Getting good grades is a good thing!
    • You’re not a cat hidden in a human body.
    • Going outside is good for you.
    • Being reclusive is not good for you.
    • Not everything is offensive!
    • Don’t use WebMD to diagnose yourself.
    • Being healthy is a good thing!
    • Needing trigger warnings for tiny things is a bad sign.
    • Not everyone will share your beliefs- embrace it!
    • Your life shouldn’t revolve around tumblr.
  • Time to Be an Adult — The Ren Addition

    I’ve been doing a lot of thinking lately, because it’s my senior year of undergraduate and I have to. I was pretty avoidant of it for the past year, trying not to think too much about it because that’s always been my general attitude about doing “adult things”. Ever since high school, I’ve been that person who is really opposed to growing up because it absolutely terrified me.

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  • panic/anxiety attack





    • breath in for 4 seconds
    • hold your breath for 7 seconds
    • exhale breath for 8 seconds

    repeat once or twice more.

    This causes an autonomic nervous system shift from a sympathetic (fight or flight reaction) state to a parasympathetic response.

    Use this for panic/anxiety attacks, exams, presentations.

    Never not reblog

    Tumblr got anxiety advice. Fuck yeah.

    Read this earlier, and it helped me a lot tonight.

    I advise this to people who experience panic or anxiety attacks all the time. I have to use it myself occasionally.

    (via melkypellows)

  • demispooky:

    male teachers arent allowed to dress code female students anymore at my school because somebody pointed out that if they had been dress coded for their shorts/skirt being too short or their bra showing by a male teacher, that meant said male teacher was looking at her ass and boobs i am laughing my fucking ass off

    (via prycedlanetospoopy)

  • maneth985:




    if you dont have me on facebook you are probably not missing out on any posts but the comment section is important too lmao

    I went to the Renaissance faire dressed as a warrior.  I had a real sword with me, too.  I was standing (in character) next to a sword-fighting ring, where kids of all ages got the chance to pick up a sword and challenge the champion.  Some woman walks by, with her little girl.  The girl starts walking towards the ring, saying she wants to fight.  But the mom pulled her away hella sharply, and was like, “That’s for boys.”  You don’t want to be a BOY, do you?”    And the girl looked around and saw me.  I think she thought I was a boy; I had my hair in a ponytail, and was wearing a hood.  So she comes up to me and asks me, “Do you think girls can be fighters, too?”  And her mom looks like she’s silently gloating.  Like she thinks I’m going to say no.  So I take off my hood, untie my hair so that it flows freely, and kneel before her.  And I’m like, “Milady, anyone can be a fighter.”  I swear, the look on that mother’s face made my day.


    (via melkypellows)